Words can not always express what is spoken. The more mature one becomes, the more one will understand what is actually in the heart is not just a word of speech but precisely from action.
Even in some contexts of the word spoken though it is the honesty of the expression of the heart if not expressed correctly, others who receive it will not believe it.
Such as Tracy Chapman’s song, Baby can I hold you, which says when words didn’t came easily, just hold her/him full of warmth. Then she/he will understand what’s on your mind even in your heart.
Maybe some of the following samples can be done in daily activities.
- Tightly hold your fried chicken as big as your hunger before you eat it. I’m sure he’ll understand what’s on your mind.
- The same thing can be done when you want to pee, ride an online motorcycle taxi, ride the busway, shopping in indomaret, drinking herbs in the herbalist (mba jamu), etc. But do not do it if you want to pick someone else pocket, just dont oke.
- Hold your boss tightly if a word can not express how much you want to raise your salary. But remember do not look into his/her eyes before you hug him/her.
- If your love partner does not want to get married try tightly hug the nearest KUA office.
Good luck!